Falling in Love is So Hard On The Knees

Okayy So .... It's about that time of the year. Valentines Day. "A day for the exchange of tokens of affection blahhh blahhh blahhh" ... Valentines Day never really interested me much ... Idk why ... Maybe because I never really had a "Valentine" per say ... But that's besides the point ... In this post I won't completely bash the topic, like I've been continuously bashing guys ... But I'd like to say a few things ... or give a couple of suggestions on some things I would like if I had a Valentine -_- ... I don't plan on getting one either but here : 1-Treat your Valentine to beakfast in bed ..... Or just skip the bed part since we're too young & take her out to lunch or something :). 2-Surprise her with something ! Like hershey kisses in her locker :). 3-Give her love coupons. For example ones that qualify for : a free kiss anytime, or a massage :). 4-Play "Ten Reasons Why" where you both list 10 reasons why you love/like each other :) Give her a toothpick to let her know "you picked the best fish out of the sea" or a safety pin to "bind you too together" Be silly w/ it & have fun ! Show your Valentine how much you appreciate them ! :)

Liar Liar Pants On Fire

Okayy so ... I was on the train yesterday ... & I was thinking about why boys lie ... Not just about anything, but about who they've been with ... When I was younger like in middle school and stuff boys would say it because they didn't think being a virgin was cool, and if they were then everyone would make fun of them ... Me on the other hand, I knew the truth so in my head I'm thinking sit your ass down ... while the other girls got all googly-eyed. But now at this day and age it's gotten ridiculous. Like boys lying left and right, swearing up and down they had sex with a girl and they DIDN'T. They don't only lie about having sex either they lie and say other silly stuff like ohh "she's a slut" and I heard this that and the third ... What could you have possibly heard if you know there isn't anything to hear? .... Well anyway ... I just wanted to get that off my chest and say it doesn't make you look cool it makes you look bad ... Especially if everyone including your "HOMEBOYS" finds out it's not true ... So be honest ... If you didn't do it, then you didn't do it ... SIMPLE !

Girls are like Buses ... Miss one next fifteen one coming !

Okay .... Chances are you WILL see another girl walk by within the next fifteen minutes ... But that doesn't mean it's going to be a pretty girl, or a good-hearted girl or one that you'd be interested in ... GUYS ... You have girlfriends/wives or whatever that would damn near pay your BAIL if they had to, and you treat them like sh*t? I don't understand. This isn't for all guys so, kudos to the guys that love their girlfriends. You all claim you're not the same, but DAMNNN, don't you all say that? Having girls up all hours of the night crying, depressed, eating junk and losing sleep. & Chances are that girl isn't the only one you're calling "WIFEY." For some guys having a relationship is setting themselves up for disaster ! Some of you guys KNOW you aren't ready for the commitment, but you let girls develop feelings for you with hopes that they'll become mutual ... NEGATIVE !!!!!! Then there's the guys who walk around screaming MOB .... Then blow all their money on a PYT in bloomies ! Then you have the ones who live for vioalting hunnies and acting like they have no feelings whatsoever ... Like why are you HURT guy??? What's eating you inside?? Can't forget the ones who swear up and down Girls are all the same ... Lmaooo ... Those are the ones who sit around depressed all day, similar to the heartbroken girls I was previously talking about ... Idk how to figure out those kinds of guys, because sometimes they have good intentions and sometimes they don't ... & Last but not least ... GOOD GUYS GOOD GUYS WHERE FORE ART THOU GOOD GUYS ..... *SILENCE ... Okayy maybe there are some good guys out there ... I feel bad for you guys though, because most likely the pretty little thing you've got your eye on has been crushed by the no goods I've just finished talking about ... Well sucks for you doesn't it...?? To sum this all up, what I'm trying to say is, girls and guys need to be careful of each others feelings .. Whether or not the other chooses to show it, you really could have hurt someone in a previous relationship ... Take the time out to be more sensitive, and watch absolutely everything you do & say !

Been gone for a minute, Now I'm back at the Jumpoff.

Okayy, so I haven't blogged for a WHILEEEE. I'm thinking it's been about six months. Funny thing is I made ONEEE post, and I just quit blogging altogether lmao. Turns out A LOTTTT happened during those six months, in addition to all the crappy teenage stuff I was already dealing with. The whole purpose of a blog is for people to read it right? Lmaoo ... Well we all know that, so I'm picking it back up as a way to vent and maybe even help people out I guess ... Because I am one to give good advice :-) ... Well yeahhhh .

Ex's && Their Ex's

Ex's We've Had 'Em & We Hate 'Em .... && Sometimes We Really Just Don't Care ... Okay Getting To The Point Again ... There Was This Guy I Used To Go Out With Way Back When ... While We Were Together I Swear There Was Just a Whole Mob Of Girls Who Were After Him && Me Being The "WIFE," I Saw It As He Needed To Let Them Know Where I Stood. The Relationship Was Rockyy && Terrible, But I Was In Love So I Stuck With It .... & On Occassion There Were The Break Ups To Make Ups && During Those Breakups He'd Go Back && Talk To & Maybe Even Date One Of The Girls In The Mob [Who Knows]. But In The End We Always Got Back Together, Because We Knew The Arguments Were Out Of Anger && I Was Of Course ..... The WIFE ! ... Well It's Been a Year Since We've Met && a While Since We Broke Up && It's Just So Sad Because I Still Feel The Animosity From The "Mob" Even When I'm Trying To Be The Bigger Person. I Don't See Whyy These Girls Can't Get It Through Their Heads That I'm Past All Of That. What My Ex Does Now && Whether He Has a Girlfriend Or Not Doesn't Concern Me Because He's No Longer My Business. Me Being Friendly To The Girls In The Mob Doesn't Go To Show That I Still Care About His Activities Or About Who He's Talking To. It Just Goes To Show That I'm Not One For Drama & Animosity Is AIMLESS. I Swear I Keep These Girls Feeling a Certain Way ... If I'm Not What The Hype's About Then What's Eatin' Yall Inside ?